that's no bad guy for a girl if she wanted him, there are only men that have no courage. Honestly that's it.
Not true. Just because she wants him doesn't mean he's not good for her. Also, if he's an ass to her, then I have a hard time seeing a guy like that as a man in the first place. I am the new old fashioned type of guy. I will do alot of the things that my older gentlemen I knew growing up did for women, but I do believe that a woman should be equal with a man which mean sharing in things like cost. (depending on the circumstances) I would treat any girl I am involved with the same way I would want my mother, sisters, nieces, and daughters to be treated.
I mean that with the utmost respect of course. Its like this. We as men could never bear the burden of having children nor rearing them by ourselves though some men have done it but its not in our nature due to the emotional and pain capacity that women have.
You're my brother and why we see eye to eye on so many things, I must admit to disagreeing on this. Men hold a greater capacity than they themselves often realize. Let look at it this way. When a man and a woman are in a relationship and they both are truly invested, a break up could and would be difficult on both, but if it hasn't been good for a year before they part ways a woman will likely have spent the last 3 to 6 months of the relationship emotionally detaching herself so when the split happens, she is a little further to moving on. The man on the other hand won't usually deal with his emotional fallout until after the relationship is over. It could take him years to get over her and he may even spend that time attempting to rekindle the old flames between them. Men tend to attach deeper then women realize and say a guy is a husband/father and his wife dies, the loss is usually a loss that can never be recovered from and he will spend his time, energy, and life making sure that the legacy of the love between he and his wife (the kids) are looked after.
could you be attracted to and/or date a someone who was taller than you without feeling insecure?
I am so attracted to women that height is rarely an issue. Although I tend to date my women shorter than me, I have found that I am much more excited by the thrill of "climbing that mountain."
When girl is all emotional and clingy. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
This is always a touchy subject for me. I would say its a combo effect and that the outcome will decide if it was good or bad. I have found that I tend to attract women like this and it usually leaves me with emotional scars. While the way Monkey say some are clingy, I have been exposed more times to the clingy girls who are for lack of a better word "broken."
They have been traumatized in relationships previously and when they realize that you are not the kind of guy they usually are involved with, they attempt to seperate quickly. In my experience, the guy will be more stable than she is and their relationship revolves around him repairing the damage previous guys have caused. At the same time, the guy himself becomes emotionally attached to her. The only drawback to this situation is that in 90% of the relationships I know of, my own included, the girl usually leaves the guy afterwards. This will after a period of time, cause a guy to become guarded in the future and may even damage him for future women as emotional damage to a man seems to be near unfixable.
Ok I got two questions for you ladies.
Do you feel that a woman should refrain from dating the friend of her ex?
Would you ever date a guy who you have been friends with for years?