I recently had a discussion with one of my friends about a situation that he's in. He has been talking to this girl who is in a relationship and wants to be with him. He asked me if he should pursue this girl and I told him to put himself in the shoes of her bf and then ask that question again. At this point we got on the topic of cheating and what actions fall into that category. We both ended up agreeing that any sexual contact would be considered cheating. What we didn't fully agree on was that kiss is/isn't cheating. He doesn't think that it is because there is no harm in it. I said that's true to an extent. I personally think it depends on how the people fell about one another. In his situation, it would be due to how the girl feels about him. Though, I have friends that I could kiss and not have it mean anything. I would like to here your opinions about this. Thanks.