Oedipus Complex Revisited

[Kaze Araki]

I was reading a very famous Indian pornographic colored online comic, when a line said by the lead female character surprised me so much as such that I am here writing this opening post in both G2 and MF. Paraphrasing what she said; virgin men has the tendency to be deeply attracted (and consequently gave more attentions) towards female's bosoms - on their first sexual intercourse.This is true for me, but I have never thought it as something that are shared more by many males instead of just a one man particular fetish or a virgin first time curiosity.

Questions time:

A. Based upon your experiences (either as female lovers towards their consort or of the males themselves), is this true? A Yes or No answer is sufficient for me, I have no interest in reading you describing the details of your sexual intercourse. This thread is not made out of promiscuous intent, and coupled with the PG-13 restriction, I hope you can keep your own sexual fantasy within yourself.

B. If so, can I argue that this experience shared by many males is strikingly similar to Freudian argument where men are shown to have innate desire towards their mothers (exemplify through their affections towards female's bosom)?



WARNING!
Do not turn this thread into a place where you write down your sexual fantasy. Go do it somewhere else.

 

[Pimp]

Answer to A
No i have always been an Ass man

Answer to B
I can see how that it is possibly true. When your a baby and fussy you would get breast fed.....So you would think that when you're in a nervous situation you would go with the place you feel comforted by as the zone you would place attention on.

 

[FTW]

A. First time, yes, definitely. Maybe because I was curious about how they feel and stuff (I won't go deeper than that, sorry if it's vague).

B. Depends on the size. XD Med-Big, yes. Small, no.

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Pardon if this is a little above pg 13 but I feel I just have to post and add this:

Most of the porn (normal porn, no bandages and stuff like that) that I've seen starts with the bosoms. Why is that?

Maybe because it's a "technique" for arousal, so what I'm trying to say is... if the youth of today is exposed to porn, especially now that we have the internet, it may also be a mind-set of "Go with the bosoms first to arouse her" rather than "Mommy!!" since they do want to impress the girl and all. Although it's not the reason for my case, but porn is spreading, the majority could've changed already and it might be this type of mind-set. (just a possibility though)

 

[Kaze Araki]

Did you read the opening post?

 

[FTW]

Yes but it seems that from your question, I seem to have misunderstood it or if not worded my sentences the wrong way.I understood it as "Virgin men giving attention to the bosoms first and it could/might be connected to the Freudian Argument wherein men are shown to have innate desire to their mothers."

 

[Kaze Araki]

I would appreciate it if you can phrase your argument in a more serious way, after all this place is for serious things.
You can use this reply as your guidance: http://forums.mangafox.com/threads/288428-Oedipus-Complex-Revisited?p=7330239&viewfull=1#post7330239

 

[FTW]

Oh, my apologies. Very well then.

A. Based from my experience, yes.

B. This is where my stand in letter A gets tricky:

Yes, in this times yes but the chances that the male only considers it as a sexual technique rather than instinct and/or desire for her mother is possible especially with the wide range of pornographic materials that somehow "teaches" the "ways" to arouse a woman is also possible. I can say this because of the experiences that I had with my friends. They want to impress their lovers and to do that they aim for technique. Although my own experience says otherwise, I came to the conclusion that "Maybe it's in the preparation and scenarios."

If the sexual intercourse isn't planned by the couple or by the "virgin party" then more or less, his instincts and desires for his mother will come into play since his brain has "nothing" about sex. Hence, yes, I agree, you can argue that it is similar to Freudian Law.

But if the sexual intercourse is planned by the couple or by the "virgin party" then more or less, his preparation might take over and the desire for his mother will turn into a desire to impress the lover through sexual techniques.

This is where I want to know the statistics of "prepared first sex" to "non-prepared first sex" and their respective desires if it's "desire for his mother" or "desire to impress the lover". But since I don't have the data, I'll have to go with 50-50, depending on the scenario.

 

[Zero Phoenix]

I was reading a very famous Indian pornographic colored online comic, when a line said by the lead female character surprised me so much as such that I am here writing this opening post in both G2 and MF. Paraphrasing what she said; virgin men has the tendency to be deeply attracted (and consequently gave more attentions) towards female's bosoms - on their first sexual intercourse.This is true for me, but I have never thought it as something that are shared more by many males instead of just a one man particular fetish or a virgin first time curiosity.

The moral of the story is guys like boobies.

Questions time:

A. Based upon your experiences (either as female lovers towards their consort or of the males themselves), is this true? A Yes or No answer is sufficient for me, I have no interest in reading you describing the details of your sexual intercourse. This thread is not made out of promiscuous intent, and coupled with the PG-13 restriction, I hope you can keep your own sexual fantasy within yourself.

Hmmm, perhaps but I don't believe that's enough to make a sweeping claim that breastmen like their mommies. Yes I'm fully aware the underlining basis for your argument is the fact that breasts are for nursing and men, virgin men specifically might be more attracted to the breasts in their lovers because it reminds them of the nourishment from their mothers. However there are too many gray areas to form any sort of basis for an Oedipus complex. For example, what if the man in question was never nursed when he was a baby and was fed via a bottle rather than the breast? What if the man never had any contact with his mother as a child? Maybe she died or maybe he was put up for adoption. In either case the man would never have formed any type of bond with his mother at all let alone a sexual one. Also, how do lesbians take to the breast? I'm not being MA-17 but bringing up a good point as I always do. Would a lesbian have a similar interest in the breast as a straight male would? Of course this argument could go either way into proving or disproving some sort of odd sexual attraction to one's mom.

B. If so, can I argue that this experience shared by many males is strikingly similar to Freudian argument where men are shown to have innate desire towards their mothers (exemplify through their affections towards female's bosom)?

I think people in every scientific field have given so much credit to Freud's outlandish theories that we have to boil everything down to sex and incest.